“As a couple, we work because we appreciate and celebrate our similarities and differences, and engage in activities we enjoy as a couple, while still allowing room for individuality. While my partner, Matt, is building a very successful startup company, I work for a high-powered PR firm, and we share in each other’s long work hours, struggles, and triumphs. He brings wisdom and a calmness to my life that makes my life peaceful, and I bring vitality and enthusiasm to his life that helps him stay focused on enjoying his life and what he’s trying to build. Most importantly, we don’t focus on our differences; while we may be 17 years apart, it’s never been a consideration for us because we enjoy the same activities, we share the same drive for success, and we truly enjoy each other’s company and presence.
“We also have room for growth and understanding, we are both independent, but allow each other’s strengths to make up for our individual weaknesses, and we’re together because we want to be. I think it also helps that we are on the same page when it comes to ideas surrounding marriage, family, etc., so we don’t have to worry about unnecessary pressures creeping into our space. And really, that’s just how any relationship becomes successful, in my opinion.” -Amy (33) and Matt (49)